Four Years In: A Word About Marriage

An excellent wife who can find?

She is far more precious than jewels.

The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.

She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. . . .

Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:

“Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all.”

Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

Proverbs 31:10-12, 28-30

Four years ago today I married my lovely wife, Emily.

In four years, we’ve seen some amazing changes in our lives.

Four years ago, we both worked at a printing company as graphic designers/production artists and (obviously) had no children.

Today, I work as a professional writer and Emily works as a stay-at-home mom caring for our two lovely daughters and dabbles in freelance illustration.

We’ve gone through some really joyful times, like the birth of our children. We’ve gone through some difficult seasons, including a miscarriage and learning how to really live on one income. And there have been some exciting adventures and challenges, like my joining Compassion’s staff, our finding a new church in Harvest Bible Chapel and some things that we’re not ready to talk about yet.

But in the last four years, there’s never been a day where I’ve wanted to throw in the towel.

There’s never been a day when I’ve gone to bed thinking, “I don’t know if I can handle spending the rest of my life with this girl.”

Because even when we’ve faced challenges, when we’ve disagreed (sometimes sharply), we come out the other side loving each other more than we did going in.

God has been good. He’s growing us closer to Him and closer to each other.

The last four years have been great. I hope for at least sixty more.

You game, Emily?

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  • http://www.hillsbiblechurch.org/ Don

    Congratulations, Aaron.

    I guess this really does place us in different generations. Married 47 years to my first wife. Or as my Dad used to say, 25 happy years of marriage – that’s not bad our of 47. :)

    • http://hardwords.wordpress.com Aaron Armstrong

      Thanks Don!

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  • http://onemrandmrs.wordpress.com the Mrs.

    congratulations and happy anniversary! may your marriage continue to be blessed :)

  • http://beckytschamler.blogspot.com Becky

    This is a beautiful post! Happy anniversary!

  • http://hardwords.wordpress.com Aaron Armstrong

    Thanks very much theMrs. and Becky!