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Aaron Armstrong / November 9, 2017

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What does Jesus say to those with doubts?

Steve Mathewson:

But what exactly is faith that leads to eternal life? First, it’s worth noting that the words believe or belief and faith in the New Testament all translate from the same word. So, to believe is to have faith, and to have faith is to believe. Faith or belief is a trust and dependence on the Lord Jesus Christ, the One who died for our sins and rose to life. It might help to think for a moment about the following three aspects of faith as counterparts to the three kinds of doubt.

Do You Sleep Less Than Jesus?

David Mathis:

Yet it’s one thing to sleep, and quite another to sleep through a “great storm.” Matthew, Mark, and Luke all tell the story of Jesus asleep in the boat. “A great windstorm arose, and the waves were breaking into the boat, so that the boat was already filling. But he was in the stern, asleep on the cushion” (Mark 4:37–38). Waves breaking into the boat. Not only is this a testimony to how tired he must have been, but also how trusting. What serenity of soul, what rest in his Father, that he slept in the storm.

We might even say, “No one ever slept like this man!”

False Repentance Leads to False Conversions

Michael Lawrence:

Sometimes we talk about repentance as if it’s feeling bad or guilty about our behavior. We feel guilty if we’re caught. We feel guilty if we’re not caught. We feel guilty if we’ve let someone down, or let ourselves down. There’s no question that repentance requires us to be convinced of our guilt. But you can feel guilty and still love the sin you’re guilty of. Anyone who’s given in to the pull of lust can tell you that. “Like a dog that returns to his vomit is a fool who repeats his folly” (Prov. 26:11). Repentance isn’t a feeling.

‘I’m Not Racist; I’m Color Blind.’

Darryl Williamson:

Church Security: How Do We Keep Our Churches Safe in a World Where Evil Is Present?

Ed Stetzer:

While I have experience in consulting in church security, I have always tried to connect churches with experts in the field of security who can give recommendations out of their weight of experience and training.

So, in trying to help pastors, my team reached out to security professionals both in and out of the church to ask how we can think through questions of security while at the same time remaining welcoming and open to our communities. So as pastors, elder teams, and ministry leaders begin the hard and complex process of refining their security processes, I want to offer a mix of pastoral and practical advice for us all to consider.

On Second Chances and God’s Merciful Ways

Courtney Reissig:

Second chances are often God’s means of providing mercy to his people. There does come a point where his mercy is exhausted and he grants judgment, rather than the second chance (Numbers 20, Josh. 7, Acts 5:1-11). But then there are times where he gives repeat circumstances, another chance not only to behave better, but to see his unchanging mercy towards his people. The Israelites got a second chance. They crossed the Jordan River in the same manner they crossed the Red Sea, only through the might and power of God who splits the seas in two. They are sent into the spy out the land, a land that still contained the same terrifying enemies of God. They enter the Promised Land, a land flowing with milk and honey that in many ways resembles Eden, the land that Adam and Eve were cast from after they failed to trust that God had been good to them. The Israelites failed the first test, would they pass the second?


Sermon prep for the non-vocational preacher

A favorite from the archives:

Sermon prep methodology fascinates me. I love learning how pastors manage their time to prioritize prayer, study, writing, and practice. Through the years, my own habits have changed pretty drastically. I used to joke that my prep was like “Forrest Gump”-ing my way into a good sermon. It was basically a happy coincidence. I don’t joke like that anymore (and not just because it annoys my wife). Actually, I work really hard to prepare any sermon or presentation. I’ve never considered myself a natural public speaker, so I don’t wing anything.

So what do I do? Today, I thought I’d share a bit about what my current process looks like.

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Aaron Armstrong / July 10, 2017

The most personally convicting book I’ve read in ages

Feet in bed

Right now, I’m about halfway through David Murray’s Reset: Living a Grace-Paced Life in a Burnout Culture. I probably should have been done it about a week ago, when I started reading it on a plane, but I can’t finish it. At least not yet. It’s been a challenge.

The challenge doesn’t come from the writing itself. Murray’s style is inviting and the language is accessible. It’s not from a lack of interest in the book’s topic, either. If that were the case, I wouldn’t even be reading it. The challenge comes from being so darn convicted every time I read another paragraph.

Reset is Murray’s attempt to encourage all of us who are eager to work hard for the Lord1 to take a deep breath and slow down—specifically, men (though an edition for women is due out in the not too distant future). Not to stop working hard, but to develop a sustainable pace. And Lord knows we need the encouragement. So, he offers ten “repair bays” to help us diagnose the warning signs in our lives and correct them. Of these, probably the most personally significant has been the chapter on rest. Sleep.

“I’ll sleep when I’m dead” and other lies we tell ourselves

Recently, Christian George shared an article on Spurgeon’s schedule, which was terrifying to behold. Now, Spurgeon was an unusually gifted man, and I’m pretty sure George’s point in sharing it was simply that: to share, not to emulate. I know of many people (particularly young men) who would read the article and see it as worthy of emulation, and set about building a similar schedule, one that probably would give them five hours of sleep a night. At best.

But, y’know, rise and grind and all that. (Anyway…)

Over the last ten years working in Christian ministries, I’ve met more hardworking, driven people than I had in the previous ten. They work hard, they… well, they don’t really play at all. But if they did, they’d probably play hard, too. They work long days. They struggle to take vacations, and even when they do, they’re still kind of working (because there is always more to be done). And I get this, because I’m one of them.

I am a fairly high capacity guy, but I still find myself wanting to push myself to the absolute limits to do more. So I keep pushing. And my bedtime gets later. But my wakeup time doesn’t. I’ve had problems with this for years. At one point, about eight years ago, I was fried. I’d been working extremely hard for about a year, running on the bare minimum of sleep, just trying to keep on top of everything. And then I hit a wall. Standing in my tiny z-shaped kitchen, my hands started shaking as I made a sandwich. I couldn’t hold the knife I was using. My body had said “when,” and I had to listen.

After that happened, I tried to make some important changes in my routine, particularly with my sleep routine. I committed to getting to bed at a decent time every night. Which I did… for a while. And then, gradually, over a period of about three years, I started falling back into the routine of late nights and early mornings. I’d catch myself, get back into a good routine for a while, and then the pattern would start again.

Which is kind of dumb. Actually, it’s kind of sinful.

Okay, it actually is sinful.

Reset-David Murray

What our sleep habits say about our faith

This is the thing that was so convicting reading this book. Reset challenged (or rather, challenges) me on what I say I believe about God:

  • I say I believe God is sovereign, but my sleep habits say I don’t actually trust him with my work, or my family.
  • I say I respect the “goodness” of how God has made me, but my sleep habits say I refuse to accept the good limitations he has placed.
  • I say I believe I’m a holistic being—that my soul and body are connected—but my sleep habits say I believe I can neglect my body and not have it affect my soul.
  • I say I find my rest in Christ, but my sleep habits say I don’t rest, period.2

Hurts, doesn’t it? And it gets worse. This neglect has consequences. When I don’t sleep enough for an extended period of time, I’m physically weaker, more prone to illness, mentally sluggish, ill-tempered and irritable, and prone to anxiety.

Why do I keep doing this—why do any of us? Probably because I’m too proud.

Humility and our need for rest

That’s why this book has been so hard for me to read with any efficiency. Page after page, I’m thinking through the implications of my sinful tendencies as far as work and rest are concerned, and I don’t like it. I don’t like that I keep falling into the same habits. But I really don’t like the pride that it reveals.

I realize that most of what I’ve written at this point makes my takeaways sound pretty bleak, one big gray cloud in need of a silver lining. And what I’ve appreciated as I’ve read the book so far isn’t just the corrective, but the underlying hope that flows through every chapter. God gives us abundant grace to change our habits and our rhythms. We’re not on our own to fix our sleep habits, our exercise routines, diets, or anything else for that matter. He is in the mix. He is working in us. And the first step is one of humility. To say “Lord, I know I am not God; help me to actually live like I believe it.” For me, that means trusting that God will enable me to get what I need done well before 10:30 each night. For you, it might mean something else. But whatever it is, it’s going to start with this first act.

Without a doubt, Reset has been one of the most personally challenging books I’ve read in years. Every page has hurt. But every page I’ve read so far has been worth it.


Title: Reset: Living a Grace-Paced Life in a Burnout Culture
Author: David P. Murray
Publisher: Crossway (2017)


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  1. And/or our own personal glory in the name of working hard for the Lord. ↵
  2. See pages 54-55 ↵

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Aaron Armstrong / May 16, 2014

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What Do You Mean by Unconditional Love?

Erik Raymond:

It is common today to hear people say, “God loves us unconditionally.” It is also common to watch people bristle when people say, “God elects us unconditionally.”

When people say that God loves us unconditionally they usually mean something like, “After conversion God loves you no matter what. Isn’t that great?”

In one sense this is true, God’s love for his people is not based upon what they do or do not do. But this does not mean that God loves us unconditionally. If God loves anyone he loves them conditionally.

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Missional Love

Matthew Sims:

Love we see is absolutely integral to who God is, but did you notice how the the two references work backwards? Look at like this: Love is essential to who God is and it’s out of this love that he sent his Son to die. God’s love (and all true love) is not insular. It’s not looking in and loving oneself. That’s why the two greatest commandments according to Jesus are love God and love neighbor. That’s also why God as trinity is essential orthodoxy. God has been and will always be a God who overflows in his love for others. This originates with his love within the trinity and overflows onto us.

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50 Good Reasons to Sleep Longer

David Murray:

We are sleeping between one and two hours less per night than people did 60 or so years ago and it’s having a devastating impact upon every part of our lives. Over the last few months I’ve been collecting research about the dangers of too little sleep, which I’ve summarized below.

Are We Christians Good Neighbors?

Thabiti Anyabwile:

I played with Bea and Fred’s five children. We did everything from ride our bikes together to play basketball or stickball in the neighborhood park to chase one another in frenetic games of tag or hide-n-seek. We children were neighbors, too.

I thought about Bea and Fred last week as I prepared to preach Luke 10:25-37, the parable of the so-called “good Samaritan.” I prefer to call it the parable of the godly neighbor since Jesus tells the story to a religious man who asked in a self-justifying moment, “who is my neighbor?”

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